After Suicide Loss: Coping With Your GriefBob Baugher, Ph.D., John Jordan, Ph.D., 2001, The Family Loss Project
This book is written specifically to help survivors during the first year after a suicide. It is organized around the first few days, few weeks, few months, etc. It is short, concise and very practical in its orientation to providing concrete suggestions and help for survivors.
After Suicide: Help for the BereavedDr. Sheila Clark, 1995, Hill of Content
This is a comprehensive handbook dealing with a specific area of bereavement after suicide—and fills the gap in the grief and suicide literature. It shows practical commonsense and careful guidelines to help people find their way through this time. It is an excellent resource for both those who have suffered and those who would support them.
Are You Like Me? Helping Children Cope with SuicideTesh & Schleich, 2009, The Hospice of Florida Suncoast
This booklet undertakes the difficult task of discussing suicide with children who have recently lost a loved one. Beginning by providing general definitional information regarding suicide, the text then quickly transitions to the topics of feelings children may experience in relation to suicide, questions which may remain after the death, and ways to relate to others in terms of emotions felt. The book addresses numerous common questions which children may have pertaining to these important topics.
A Winding Road: A Handbook for Those Supporting the Suicide BereavedMichelle Linn-Gust, Ph.D. & John Peters M. Sucidology, 2010, Chellehead Works
“This book is a book of care-giving for caregivers who have walked the walk as both those who work with those bereaved by suicide and who have been intimately impacted by suicides of loved ones. In turn, they have gathered an octet of guest authors individually and collectively offer a wealth of relevant experience to the reader. All told, the quilt they have woven for you is warm, comforting, and replete with enriched patterns of perspective and information that are enormously helpful to those who work with those bereaved by suicide.” Lanny Berman, Ph.D., ABPP, Executive Director, American Association of Suicidology.
Bart Speaks Out: Breaking the Silence on SuicideLinda Goldman, M.S. & Jonathan P. Coldman (Photographer), 1998, Western Psychological Services
For children ages 3-10. An interactive story and workbook for children dealing specifically with a death by suicide. Uses photos of dogs to soften the impact. Bart, a white terrier, narrates his story to losing Charlie to suicide. A workbook for young children to journal their feelings about the loss of a loved one to suicide, this is an ideal book to use with a parent or counselor who can assist the child in filling in the pages.
A Long-Shadowed Grief: Suicide and Its AftermathHarold Ivan Smith, 2007, Cowley Publications
In the aftermath of suicide, friends and family face a long road of grief and reflection. With a sympathetic eye and a firm hand, Harold Ivan Smith searches for the place of the spirit in the wake of suicide. He asks how one may live a spiritual life as a survivor, and he address the way faith is permanently altered by the residue of stigma that attaches to suicide.
Before Their Time: Adult Children’s Experiences of Parental SuicideMary T. Stimming (Editor) & Maureen Stimming (Editor), 1999, Temple University Press
Before Their Time is the first work to present adult children survivors’ accounts of their loss, grief and resolution following a parent’s suicide. In one section, the book offers the perspective of sons and daughters on the deaths of mothers, in another, the perspective of sons and daughters on the deaths of fathers. In a third section, four siblings reflect on the shared loss of their mother. Topics such as the impact of the parent’s suicide on adult children’s personal and professional choices, marriages and parenting, sibling and surviving parent relationships are explored with sensitivity and insight. Various coping skills, including humor, are described.
Blue Genes: A Memoir of Loss and SurvivalBy Christopher Lukas
Christopher Lukas authored this book eleven years after the suicide of his brother, Tony, a two-time Pulitzer-winner. Tony, who was being treated for depression, ended his life in 1997. Christopher Lukas, himself a writer-producer-director in television, wrote this book in the hope of coming to an understanding of his relationship with his brother with who he had difficulty finding “common ground.”
But I Didn’t Get To Say Goodbye. For Parents and Professionals Helping Child Suicide SurvivorsBarbara Rubel, 2000, Griefwork Center, Inc.
This hands-on book benefits those who want to learn how to help a child after a sudden loss. The power of this book comes from the most frequently asked questions a bereaved child asks, and the honest, respectful, age-appropriate answers from caring adults. Caregivers get intervention strategies, complete with bereavement referrals and up-to-date recommended resources. Adults get a head start by the ready-to-copy, interactive, non-threatening questions and activities wherein the child’s thoughts and feelings are shared.
Do They Have Bad Days In Heaven? Surviving the Suicide Loss of a SiblingMichelle Linn-Gust, 2001, Chellehead Works
The first comprehensive resource for sibling suicide survivors. The author takes the reader through the personal experiences of losing her younger sister and weaves in the available research for sibling survivors. She explains suicide, the grief process, and how sibling death impacts the brothers and sisters left behind, and offers practical advice for surviving the loss of a sibling to suicide.
Dying to Be Free. A Healing Guide for Families After a SuicideBeverly Cobain & Jean Larch, Hazeldon, 2006
Excellent healing guide for survivors of suicide. Recognizing that grief work is personal and unique in each individual, this book is recommended as a beacon of hope and understanding to those who have suffered the pain and loss of a loved one to suicide.
>The Coldest Night: A Family’s Experience of SuicideCarol Anne Milton, 2009 Veritas Publications
Carol Anne Milton takes us on an emotionally charged journey as she recounts her son Alan’s suicide. As she chronicles the events from the time she learned that her son had taken his life, through the aftermath of despair and grief, and ultimately her resolution to help others, her words pierce your chest and echo the tragedy of her loss in the chambers of your heart.
The Deafening Silence: A MemoirRosemarie Manes, 2003, First Books
Survivors of suicide and general readers alike will find much value in The Deafening Silence by Rosemarie Manes. This memoir, told from the vantage point of a bright and inquisitive 11 year-old who sustained the loss of her father to suicide during the mid- 1950’s, offers penetrating insights into the mental life of youthful survivors.
Healing the Hurt Spirit: Daily Affirmations for People Who Have Lost a Loved One to SuicideCatherine Greenleaf, 2007, St. Dymphna Press
A unique book consisting of 365 daily affirmations, Greenleaf draws from her personal experience as a survivor as well as her professional experience in death education.
Each day consists of a topic specific to survivors, along with a related thought for meditational purposes. This is an inspirational and meaningful book for survivors. Contact St. Dymphna Press for more information about this book.
History Of a Suicide: My Sister’s Unfinished LifeJill Bialsky, 2011, Atria Books
The unexpected loss of a sibling is always shattering, but when suicide is the cause, grief is rendered more complicated and haunting. The death of novelist, poet, and editor Bialosky’s much younger sister, Kim, at age 21 in 1990 was one grim loss among many.
In the Wake of Suicide: Stories of the People Left BehindVictoria Alexander, 1998, Jossey-Bass
The Stories in this book chronicle individual journeys through grief after suicide—from the initial impact of the loss to its place in the survivor’s lives years later. The intent of the book is to help survivors give voice and meaning to their loss.
In Her Wake: A Child Psychiatrist Explores the Mystery of Her Mother’s SuicideNancy Rappaport, Basic Books, 2009
In Her Wake: A Child Psychiatrist Explores The Mystery of Her Mother’s Suicide by Nancy Rappaport, offers a richly rewarding read as the author fearlessly places her family life up for public scrutiny as she struggles with the difficult and necessary task of trying to understand her mother’s suicide.
Mourning After Suicide (Looping Up)Lois A. Bloom, 1986, Pilgrim Press
Originally published in 1986, the information presented is as useful today as it was then. A small, easy to read work, which provides practical information on grieving a death by suicide. The author draws on her own experience of losing a son to suicide, experts writing on suicidology, and her own spiritual beliefs.
My Son, My Son: A Guide to Healing After Death, Loss, or SuicideIris Bolton with C. Mitchell, 1984, Bolton Press
A mother’s and professional counselor’s personal story of her son’s suicide. It is for survivors who want assistance in their healing and for others who want to understand the survivor experience.
No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide of a Loved OneBy Carla Fine
The survivor of her husband’s suicide, the author draws on her own experience and on conversations with many other survivors—as well as on the knowledge of counselors and mental health professionals—to offer a strong helping hand and guidance to those left behind after suicide. Both professionals and survivors will benefit from the self- disclosure of those who share their pain and honesty.
No Way to Behave at a FuneralBy Noel Braun, 2011, Port Campbell Press
This is the story of Noel who lost Maris, his beloved wife of 42 years, to suicide following years of struggling with depression. Noel accepted there was no way around his anguish and met suffering head on. His pain allowed him to discover the richness within him and to grow in wisdom which he hopes might be of benefit to others. Maris’ death did not shut her out of Noel’s life. She remains a very real presence. This is a love story with a difference.
Our Forever Angel: Surviving the Loss of a Loved One to SuicideBarbara Scholz, 2002, 1st Books Library
This book offers empathy and hope, tugging readers to new heights of understanding, and encouraging survivors to rebuild lives and put the past where it rightfully belongs: behind them. “Is There Life After Suicide?” is the provocative question Barb Scholz has asked and answered, building her book on a foundation of introspection, hope, and ultimately, inspiration.
Rocky RoadsMichelle Linn-Gust, Ph.D., 2010 Chellehead Works
Any professional is fast to acknowledge that every person’s grief journey is a unique path. Still, Rocky Roads does attempt to present a roadmap—a loose trail to maneuver through, consider, and be forewarned of treacherous turns ahead. Rocky Roads is a unique presentation of basic psychological autopsy of the “typical” family in crisis after a suicide. It is immensely helpful for all survivors, but perhaps vital for counselors who are faced with a family in crisis.
The Role of Faith Communities In Suicide PreventionTimothy Doty, Psy.D. & Sally Spencer-Thomas Psy.D., MNM, 2009, Carson J Spencer Foundation
The idea of this guidebook came from growing understanding that suicide has an effect on a number of people from any background and people frequently turn to their religious communities in times of crisis.
Sanity and Grace: A Journey of Suicide, Survival, and StrengthBy Judy Collins
In her book, Sanity and Grace: A Journey of Suicide, Survival, and Strength, Judy Collins effectively captures and conveys the vast array of feelings that suicide survivors experience. Her lively “no holds barred” writing style makes this book an honest, profound read. Readers should expect to be “changed” from the experience of reading this book.
Seeking Hope: Stories of the Suicide BereavedMichelle Linn-Gust, Ph.D. & Julie Cerel, Ph.D., 2011, Chellehead Works
Telling your story can be, for many, the best way to begin the healing process following suicide. Drs. Linn-Gust and Cerel have published a collection of survivor stories that will allow each reader the most intimate connection with the authors. Contained in these pages are stories that will serve as the installation of hope for those who are newly bereaved by suicide and validation to those who have forged their won healing from a loss to suicide. In addition, Seeking Hope will provide insight for those clinician or caregivers who wish to be a resource for anyone bereaved by suicide.
Shadows On a Nameless BeaconBy Patricia Page
An endearing memoir about the author’s son, Christopher Jeffrey Car. At 102 pages, this diminutive book is a light and pleasant read for survivors of suicide, as well as anyone interested in the topic of loss.
Surviving Suicide: Help to Heal Your Heart—Life Stories from Those Left BehindHeather Hays, 2005, Brown Books Publishing Group
The author, a survivor and an award-winning journalist writes her story as well as the story of other survivors.
Touched by Suicide; Hope and Healing After SuicideBy Michael F Myers & Carla Fine
Dr. Michael Myers, a psychiatrist, and Carla Fine, a suicide survivor and renowned author, have collaborated on an exciting and informational volume for those whose lives have been ‘touched by suicide.’
Trying to Remember. Forced to Forget. (My Father’s Suicide)By Judith Raphael Kletter
After 15 years of not discussing her father’s suicide to family or friends and with the death of her mother in 1998, the author began to delve into her past. In this compelling book, Ms. Kletter tells her traumatic story about how she found her father hanging from a rope when she was four years old and her mother’s denial, telling her it was a bad dream—it never happened. As a result, Ms. Kletter was committed to a psychiatric institution for children. In this very personal and revealing book, she details how the suicide has affected her life, personality and relationships.
What to Do When the Police Leave: A Guide to the First Days of Traumatic LossBy Bill Jenkins
This book provides much useful information to the surviving family members on how to deal with everything from the media to funeral arrangements. The chapters on grief responses give realistic examples of common reactions to losses to homicide, suicides, and tragic accidents. Recommended for survivors, mental health professionals, and caregivers.
When Suicide Comes Home: A Father’s Diary and CommentsBy Paul Cox
Paul Cox is a survivor of his son’s suicide. His devastation touched off a flood of daily journaling, which became this book. Readers will be swept along with Paul Cox’s story and amazed at his honesty and candor. He proves that surviving is possible by facing every aspect of grieving head on and by taking a hard look at the truth, with an indomitable spirit.
Will’s Choice: A Suicidal Teen, a Desperate Mother, and a Chronicle of RecoveryBy Gail Griffith
Whether you suffer from depression, are the parent of the child who does, or are a mental health professional, it is no hyperbole to state that all will benefit from this most compelling read. The author writes about her experience with her son’s depression and suicide attempt.
Years Of the ElephantBy Willy Linthout
Years of the Elephant is the illustrated autobiographical account of Willy Linthout and his journey following the suicide of Sam, his 21 year old son in 2004.